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How to use a vibrator to have intense orgasm?

You’ve read our article about the different types of vibrators and you’ve used that advice to finally purchase one of your own. You get it home, turn down the lights, toss off your panties and crawl into bed.  You take your newly bought vibrator out of the box. You add the batteries (or plug it up) and you’re excited, filled with anticipation.

But then you pause, realizing that you have no clue what to do with it. You realize that you don’t really know how to use a vibrator. How exactly do you have an intense vibrator orgasm? Well, read below for a few pointers on how to have an orgasm using your newly purchased vibrator.

The Female Orgasm

Lucky for you, if you’re a girl, then there are lots of ways to experience an orgasm. From vaginal orgasm to nipple orgasm, you can use your vibrator to stimulate any of your pleasure centers to orgasm. Let’s start there: What feels good? Do you like for your nipples to be touched and played with? Do you like your inner thighs to be stroked? In general, do you like to be touched, massaged, or fondled? Then you might be able to achieve a massage orgasm just by using your vibrator to touch, stroke, and kneed sensitive areas such as your neck or inner thighs.

If you want, you can pretend that the vibrator is your lover’s hands. (Or better yet the hands of a complete stranger.) Go ahead and relax and let your imagination do all the work, while your hands and vibrator take care of the rest.  Stroke your clit, while you let your vibrator rest against the folds of your vagina. Or try rubbing your inner thighs with your vibrator and then work your way up, letting its subtle vibrations massage the area around your clit, while you finger yourself, alternating the speed and depth of your strokes until you reach orgasm.

As you know, there are so many versions of a female orgasm. Mix it up; try different things. Be adventurous.  It’s your body, so pleasure it.

Intense Vibrator Orgasm with a Partner

Don’t be afraid to let your partner in on the action. In fact, if you’re a fan of penetration, a vibrator can be your best friend.

If you’re not sure if your partner is into sex play with a vibrator, introduce the topic while you’re both in the car on the way to work or before you’re about to go to bed that night. A healthy sex life with your partner means open communication about your sexual wants and needs. Talk to your partner and if he or she is open to sexual escapades with the help of a vibrator try any of the ideas listed below.

Clitoral Stimulation

This one’s obvious. Your partner can use the vibrator to stimulate the area around your clit, while using his or her mouth to attend to other parts of your body. Note: Some women report that resting a vibrator directly on their clit can be uncomfortable or painful, so be sure to take your time and stimulate the areas around your clit first.  If your vibrator has settings, you might even want to turn it on the lowest setting if you plan to rub it directly against your clit.

Double Penetration

If you’re into penetration, your partner can penetrate you with the vibrator. If your partner uses a strap-on or has a penis, you can do double penetration, anal and vaginal simultaneously, using the vibrator, which can lead to a very intense orgasm.

Turn the Tables 

Most of this article has focused on how to use a vibrator to give yourself pleasure or how your partner can use a vibrator to give you please. Now, let’s look briefly at how you can use a vibrator to give your partner pleasure.

First of all, don’t just pop the vibrator out of the dresser drawer while doing the deed and poke your partner with it. If your partner hasn’t ever expressed an interest in vibrators, you need to have a conversation with him or her about introducing a vibrator into your sex lives. Again, sexual communication is highly important and out of respect for your partner, don’t spring something new on him or her without first discussing it.

If your partner gives you the green light to use the vibrator on him or her, then have a conversation with your partner about what he or she likes. Or you can experiment together. You can also try watching each other masturbate with the vibrator to get ideas of how to please each other.

Some people are too shy to pleasure themselves in front of another person, but arguably, one of the best ways to learn how to sexually please someone is by watching them please themselves. Sure, your partner could give you instructions during the act, but seeing your partner stimulate themselves to orgasm is in itself sexually exciting.

There’s no right or wrong way to use a vibrator.  Just like every vibrator is different, so is every person.  After you find the vibrator that’s right for you, experiment with it and get to know what really makes you feel good.  After you learn this, intense vibrator orgasms are a sure bet.

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